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From::New Jersey, United States 100 Things About Me I'm 34 and happily married to a wonderful man. As you can see from the 8,000 pictures we have 2 adorable children! They make us smile, make us laugh, and then shock the hell out of us on a regular basis. We're totally learnin as we go here in the maniacal household, but we're havin fun! ![]() along with my Darling Husband Come visit us! : Recent Posts :
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Friday, April 27, 2007The Ultimate Accessory I don't normally accessorize much. The only thing that I wear that could be considered an accessory is minimal jewelry, and usually I find something I like and wear it morning, noon, and night. It's rare if I ever change it or take it off, even in the shower. I used to wear rings on every finger and something big and hippy looking around my neck every day. Now it's my wedding ring, and a diamond necklace that Mike bought me. Which btw is one of the first diamond things that I've ever owned and wore. And like I said it never comes off, not even in the shower. Lately, I'm for comfort. I guess that happens to you when your a mom. Even when it comes to clothes I no longer care about style, it's all about how comfortable I'll be, and whether I look fat or not. (at least I haven't TOTALLY given up.)Me and a friend of mine, who is also pregnant, have been talking recently about the idea of "wearing your baby". These being the second for both of us the idea of having your hands free while holding your baby is very appealing to us. Especially since we both happen to be people who multitask to a fault and would have a hard time just doing one thing at a time *GASP* So we went about searching on-line for some ideas. They are very cool looking. But, I always think that those cool printed scarves for your hair are cool looking too, and have a bunch.....that I never wear. (can't shower with them...jk) Will I ever use this thing? Sounds like a good concept in theory. Apparently, as one website pointed out, it's the newest fashion! All the celebs are doing it!! This whole idea of being the NEWEST THING usually makes me shy away from things instead of go run out and grab them. I'm not a fan of being IN. *shrug* However the idea that this is the newest thing is pretty laughable. I mean my parents were using slings and carriers 30 *cough* something years ago. I think maybe it was the newest thing then.![]() Now of course if I was going to look like this chick while wearing it, I might be tempted. Seriously....who would like to bet that this girl's stomach has NEVER seen childbirth before. Let alone a couple of months prior as the child she is "holding" suggests. Talk about laughable. And also, this kid doesn't loook all that comfortable...and it doesn't seem to bother her one bit. Anyway, where was I. Oh yes.....to wear or not to wear. What do you guys think? Anyone with 2 kids ever use these things? Keep in mind I'm in the suburbs and not in the city, so walking to the store aint happening. Also, will wearing your baby spoil them? Will they get "used to" being held every second and not want to be put down? Cause that could TOTALLY backfire on me, and that would suck. The point is to be able to do stuff with Allie and the baby without being bogged down, not to raise a spoiled baby who wants me to hold them all the time while I have a toddler who ALSO wants to be held all the time cause I'm holding the baby all the time....and AHHHHH. ![]() Although how much would Althea LOVE carrying her dolls around in one of these just like mommy? I might buy one just for THAT reason. (p.s. How funny is the face of the little boy in this picture. He's all like - Your kidding with this thing...right?) Also, I'm pretty crafty....think I could possible make one of these? Doesn't look that difficult. Labels: Oh baby Monday, April 23, 2007Chicken Rex"Wow, did you hear that? They said that Chickens are the closest living relative to the T-Rex!" "That's not possible, they aren't even reptiles." "Well, doesn't matter what you think. Obviously it's true! They just said it on TV." "Ummm yea, not everything they say on TV is true. Have you ever watched the news?" "Yea, but this was on PBS Kids! I'm sure they aren't just making that shit up and teaching it to our kids! ........right?" "We'd never know." Labels: A Day in the Life Friday, April 20, 2007This Rock Has Some Cracks In ItIf you know me, or even if you've been reading this blog for awhile, you know that I'm a rock. I don't cry. Or at least it's rare! Not sure why, but I fight it every step of the way. I do not allow myself to get that emotional I guess. I've been called cold before, but whatcha gonna do. People just handle things different ways. I write, or drive myself crazy with shit floating around in my head, but I don't cry. HOWEVER, These hormones are kicking my ass! I'm suddenly an emotional wreck....what's happened to me? I'm crying or on the verge like all the time!! (OK, just for the past couple of days but STILL!!!) Last night Allie goes to sleep around 8:30. Mike has to put her to bed cause lately she wants only daddy all the time. She's had a fever the last couple of days, but she seemed better now. She wakes up around 10:30 for no apparent reason. We let her cry for a bit to go back to sleep. (most of the time it's quicker that way, cause if we go in there she just freaks out more and doesn't know what she wants...cause what she wants is sleep) No dice....she's shaking the bars and pissed. I go in (she'd rather daddy, but she deals) and sit next to the crib and eventually she falls back to sleep. 12:30 she wakes up again. (I think it's a combo of teething and maybe some bad habits from being sick, cause we put her in bed with us when she had a high fever) We try and let her cry for a bid, but no.....Mike goes in, sits next to the crib and she calms down. He goes to leave....she freaks out. He comes back in and says....we have to let her cry or she's just going to do this every night! Normally this is what I'm saying to him. Cause...he's right. Except as I lay there listening to her cry.....I start welling up with emotion. I'm sighing...I'm watching her through the monitor....finally I'm like "but WHY is she crying....maybe we should go in". So he gets up (half pissed...p.s. I didn't ask him I just wanted his feedback before I did it) and goes and tries to sit next to the crib again.... she's still crying....I yell in there....(Cause I couldn't take it anymore...it was like something was ripping out my heart) "just bring her in here." She comes into the room and I go to comfort her. She pushes me away and says "Nooo Mommy!!! Dada!" and goes for him. She wants me no where near her. If I even hit into her arm (it's not a big bed) she's yelling... NOOO Mommy!!!!! Pushing me. I lose it. I start bawling in the bed. Now she's crying, and I'm crying, and Mike is cranky cause he can't sleep when she's in the bed. I want her, and she wants him, and he wants SPACE. Finally, I get bad at hiding it, and Mike asks me "are you crying?" "NO!" wiping my tears with the pillow. "You sure?" "Yes!" I cried myself to sleep. All I kept thinking about is how I don't give her enough attention, and why doesn't she want me? Aren't I the mommy? Shouldn't she want ME when she's upset? And now I'm going to have another one, and it's too early, and I'm going to take even more attention away from her.....we should have waited.....bla bla bla I made Mike drop Allie off at daycare this morning cause I wasn't sure if I could handle her screaming and crying when I dropped her off, and I didn't want to lose it AT the daycare. Sooo, yea. I'm broken. Can someone fix me please? Thanks. --------- Disclaimer: I don't want ANYONE to call me or ask me if I'm ok or even mention this post to me outside of the comments here. Yes mom, this means you. I know Allie is going through a stage and I shouldn't take it personally. I know it's hormones. No need to rationalize it, I get it. I just needed to write it down and get some supportive comments (hopefully) and move on. Thank You Labels: A Day in the Life, Althea Raye, Preggo Blues Friday, April 13, 2007He's not Supernan and I'm happy!Mike and I have a post up at this morning.He finds out what it's like to be mom....and I find out that he's not perfect. It's a good one, go check it out. Labels: Dad said Mom said Wednesday, April 11, 2007We're back from vacation and we all need a nap.Well, we made it. To South Carolina and back. In the car. We had zombification of the child, and more Elmo than any family should have to be put through. My child is sooo addicted to Elmo that she won't allow anything in that DVD player unless it was ALL ELMO ALL THE TIME!! She wasn't even thrilled with the entire Sesame Street episodes, cause Helloooo it's only part Elmo...and that's just not enough for her. I'm still not sure how this happened. I mean sure she likes the other characters. When Cookie Monster comes on she yelled....nummy numm numm. And when the Count comes on she says...ah ahh ahhhh. But that lasts about 3 seconds ands she's back to demanding they give the stage back to Elmo and stop messin around! What does this mean? It means we spent approximately 18 hours listening to either Elmo's world after Elmo's world, or Allie yelling.. ELMO? ELLLLMOOOO!!!???!!! Besides that she was great. She did good in all the restaurants, and didn't protest too much being strapped in the car seat for 2 days down and 2 days back for 6 hours each day. We stopped at Roadside America in PA, which I used to do when I was younger, and she loved it. It was a nice little break from the car. South Carolina was very nice, and my in-laws were great hosts, and they let Allie take over there house with toys without any fuss. The weather was beautiful, in the 80's every day we were there. Allie got to run around outside and go to the park. So she was in total heaven! I got to wear flip flops...so I was too. Only issue with the trip, besides the Elmo overload, was the fact that Allie is pretty much done with the whole sleeping in the pack n play idea. I don't blame her either, the poor thing is getting too big for it. She can barely roll over without hitting the side. Soooooooo she slept in bed with us EVERY NIGHT. And since she's not used to sleeping with us, it wasn't an easy thing. She thought it was play time, or she cried and flailed around for an hour while Mike and/or I pretended to be sleeping. Usually by the time she fell asleep (9 - 10 pm) we ended up falling asleep too. Which means no Allie free time. I mean we love her and all.....but a little Allie free time is always a good thing, ya know? ok, enough babbling.....here ya go......have a picture of the child. More Easter pictures to come, but for now here's my favorite. ![]() Labels: Althea Raye, Holidays |
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